so i come from a family chock-full of baptist missionaries. my brain's been kind of stretched over the last couple days trying to square my love for my extended family with my own urge to stand up and call bullshit on this whole southern christian homophobia thing.
so let me just say this to my southern christian friends: i love you deeply and always will. i have no frame of reference to understand your opposition to same-sex marriage, but will accept it since to do anything else would be to deny your personal agency.
but i do disagree with you, and likely i always will. i hope that in time you will see same-sex marriage does nothing to diminish your marriage. i hope you recognize the desire to live in monogamous marriages extends to all sorts of people: gay, straight and all things in-between. i hope you will see that the gender of a child's parents has infinitely less to do with that child's welfare than the love and support offered the child from the parents.
my take on christ's message is we must all seek salvation by challenging ourselves to love those whom we once hated. the "conversion experience" is a chance to open our hearts and see the reflection of the divine spark hidden in the souls of others.
i love you not because the bible tells me to love you, but because it brings me closer to my god. i do not agree with you, but i love you and no matter what you think about me or my marriage, i always will.
so let me just say this to my southern christian friends: i love you deeply and always will. i have no frame of reference to understand your opposition to same-sex marriage, but will accept it since to do anything else would be to deny your personal agency.
but i do disagree with you, and likely i always will. i hope that in time you will see same-sex marriage does nothing to diminish your marriage. i hope you recognize the desire to live in monogamous marriages extends to all sorts of people: gay, straight and all things in-between. i hope you will see that the gender of a child's parents has infinitely less to do with that child's welfare than the love and support offered the child from the parents.
my take on christ's message is we must all seek salvation by challenging ourselves to love those whom we once hated. the "conversion experience" is a chance to open our hearts and see the reflection of the divine spark hidden in the souls of others.
i love you not because the bible tells me to love you, but because it brings me closer to my god. i do not agree with you, but i love you and no matter what you think about me or my marriage, i always will.
 
